But as time passed everyone was asking questions about what kind of house we were going to build. they wanted us to take a first step. And we wanted too. But we didn't know where to start.
How many storys should it have? How many bedrooms? Bathrooms? ("You want children, don't you?") What kind of roof? What kind of windows? What kind of entertainment system? Which kitchen supplies would we choose.
Should it be really modern (lots of glass), all genuine and grown up (dark wooden floors and heavy couches), Scandinavian (and if we chose Scandinavian... would we stick to Scandinavian minimalism or go for the pastel shade - shabby chic kind of style?)
We were literally overwhelmed by thousands of pages of impressions and catalogues and ideas and questions and good advice.
What helped us a lot was to take a little time out. Our honeymoon came in quite handy.
Somewhere between Bangkok and the most beautiful Thai islands we simply forgot that we had bought land and needed to build a house on it.
Sadly I had to realize that this perfect little bungalow of ours - with a bathroom without a roof and a massive rock in the middle of it - made perfect sense on Koh Tao... But it wouldn't in Suburbia.
Nevertheless I could figure out 3 things about my future home:
1) I want a big wooden porch.
2) I chose these shiny kitchen floor tiles for my bathroom (yes, i did. Maybe I should have consulted my friends first so they could talk me out of it...)
3) I want a LOT of windows in my livingroom/diningroom/kitchen ...
I do get the gorgeous view over the ocean from my kitchen table into the bargain, right?
Should it be really modern (lots of glass), all genuine and grown up (dark wooden floors and heavy couches), Scandinavian (and if we chose Scandinavian... would we stick to Scandinavian minimalism or go for the pastel shade - shabby chic kind of style?)
We were literally overwhelmed by thousands of pages of impressions and catalogues and ideas and questions and good advice.
What helped us a lot was to take a little time out. Our honeymoon came in quite handy.
Somewhere between Bangkok and the most beautiful Thai islands we simply forgot that we had bought land and needed to build a house on it.
Sadly I had to realize that this perfect little bungalow of ours - with a bathroom without a roof and a massive rock in the middle of it - made perfect sense on Koh Tao... But it wouldn't in Suburbia.
Nevertheless I could figure out 3 things about my future home:
1) I want a big wooden porch.
2) I chose these shiny kitchen floor tiles for my bathroom (yes, i did. Maybe I should have consulted my friends first so they could talk me out of it...)
3) I want a LOT of windows in my livingroom/diningroom/kitchen ...
I do get the gorgeous view over the ocean from my kitchen table into the bargain, right?
When we returned from our honeymoon, we sat down and started planning.
Soon we realized that we agreed in most of the important aspects-
We both wanted our house to be not too big.
We wanted one proper storey and one half storey.
But it should have a basement.
We need 3 bedrooms (one with a walk-in closet) and 2 bathrooms in the upper storey. And the possibility to capture a fourth bedroom somewhere in the house, if we decide someday, that we will have more than 2 children.
We want an open kitchen-livingroom-diningroom. But we don't want to see the mess we've made in the kitchen when we relax on the couch. So the ground plan of those 3 rooms must be shaped as an L.
And there should be a lot of light (and therefor windows).
My office has to be on the first floor, so I can throw my school bag in there right away, when I come home from work.
And we both agreed that we wanted a very simple house with a basic layout. But there should be one eye catcher. We decided to blend in a sunroom into our big open kitchen-living-dining-room concept.



It sounds like you guys have a lot of great plans for your new home. How exciting (but stressful!) that you are building it from scratch. I can understand how overwhelming it must be because I tend to get really stressed when just trying to decide how one room in my flat should look! I think that having a lot of light is one of the most important aspects when either deciding on a place to move into or building your own home, and it's a pretty unique requirement to not want to see the mess of the kitchen from the living room when relaxing but makes tons of sense actually. I also like that you guys are aiming for something comfortable but not too big. I think I would do the same. We often live in places much bigger than what we actually need - just something we have all become accustomed to - and what inevitably happens is that even if we do not need such a big space we will end up filling it up somehow and then have even more things we probably do not actually need! The less you have, the more you can appreciate, in my opinion.
ReplyDeleteThe place you guys stayed at for your honeymoon looks absolutely heavenly. What is the name of this hotel? I would love to know for the future. I keep seeing so many beautiful photos of people on holiday in Thailand and it really makes me think that I finally need to make a trip out there myself. The scenery is stunning and the food is incredible.
Rae | love from berlin
Thanks for your comment, Rae :-)
ReplyDeleteWe've spent quite some time on figuring out what kind of house our house should be. But honestly I think the ground plot or hard facts of a house only matter slightly. I grew up in a teeny tiny apartment with my parents and had the best childhood ever. I think that's why we decided to build a decent house rather than a fancy one. (That's and obviously fact that I hate housework. I don't want to clean 220 square metres ;))
Making this house a home means so much more than having figured out all the constructional details.
Making this house real home, a cozy place to live, is the part I'm really looking forward to.
The place on Kho Tao where we stayed was La Cigale (http://www.a-la-cigale.com/). We stayed in one of the twin villas and it was the best experience ever. It was really private, but whenever we needed something we could call and magically someone turned up and helped us out. It also included a motorbike, so we could get around the island.
I really recommend La Cigale. Adré (the owner) was absolutely friendly and great to talk to.